Bereavement support

There’s a devastating reality that not all parents get to take their babies home from neonatal care, and they may require bereavement support. That’s why we’re committed to supporting and encouraging families to gain access to specialist support.

Bereavement support for the whole family

The pain and feelings of loss parents face after the death of their baby are indescribable. These feelings may also affect siblings, grandparents and the wider circle of family and friends.

Facilities and services for bereaved parents will vary depending on the neonatal unit. The neonatal team will endeavour to do everything possible to ensure families are supported with any cultural or religious practices. All neonatal units will have a bereavement service and bereavement support may be available for the family at home. There may be facilities that enable families to stay with their baby for a day or two.

A safe space for bereaved families

“The following two weeks after Phoebe’s death are still a blur. I remember the overwhelming feeling of grief kicking in whilst trying to plan a funeral and continue to be a mum to my other daughter, Lily. I felt so alone and as if nobody else understood what had happened or how I was feeling. I felt as if I would never be able to get past these feelings and that I would never feel happiness again. I can say that I have felt happiness again. This does not mean the grief has gotten any less, but I have found my ‘new normal’. I still think of Phoebe every single day, I still cry, I still look at photos over and over and this will never change. However, I have learnt to live my new life, and Phoebe plays a massive part in mine and Lily’s life.”

Katie, Mummy to Lily & Phoebe

Spoons has a Facebook bereavement support group, which is run by Katie. The group provides a safe and understanding space for other bereaved parents to share their thoughts and feelings without fear of being judged.

Funding and support for bereaved parents

We’re also able to fund counselling and trauma therapy for families who have experienced a loss on a neonatal unit in Greater Manchester.

All child funerals are free of charge and you can access the Child Funeral Fund for extra financial support with extras.

Families may also find support from some of the following organisations:

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Bereavement support